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آپ کی سب سے بڑی کمزوری کیا ہے؟

“سب سے بڑی کمزوری” کے حوالے سے سوال کے بارے میں آپ کو اسے طاقت کے نکات دکھانے کے ایک موقع کے طور پر لینا چاہیے۔ مثال کے طور پر آپ جواب دے سکتے ہیں “میرا خاندان میری سب سے بڑی کمزوری ہے اور یہ مجھے اپنے کام سمیت ہر کام میں کامیاب ہونے کے لیے اضافی میل طے کرنے کی طاقت دیتا ہے۔ مجھے یقین ہے کہ یہ ایک لاجواب ردعمل ہے اور امیدوار اور انٹرویو لینے والے کے لیے ہر چیز کا احاطہ کرتا ہے۔

میری سب سے بڑی کمزوری ٹائم مینجمنٹ ہے۔ وقت کا نظم و نسق وقت کی پابندی کے معنی میں نہیں، بلکہ توانائی اور دستیاب کاموں کی کثرت کے مقابلے میں اس کا مقابلہ کرتے وقت۔ اور اگر ہم اس کے بارے میں حقیقی بنیں تو، میں جانتا ہوں کہ ہم سب کو ایک ہی مسئلہ کا سامنا تھا (اور اب بھی ہے)۔ اگر مجھ میں کمزوری نہیں ہے تو کیا ہوگا؟ اور میں عملی طور پر ایک کامل ملازم ہوں؟ میں اسے کیسے ایڈریس کروں؟ یہ طاقت کی عکاسی بھی کر سکتا ہے۔ اگر آپ کام کے لیے اتنے وقف ہیں تو شاید آپ کو نہ کہنا اور کردار میں ضرورت سے زیادہ کام کرنا پسند نہیں ہے؟ کیا یہ آپ کے کام کی زندگی کے توازن کو متاثر کرتا ہے یا آپ اپنے منافی اوقات میں سب کچھ حاصل کرتے ہیں؟

یہ شروع میں ٹھیک ہے۔ آپ اپنے آپ کو، اندرونی ماحول یا بیرونی ماحول کو دیکھ کر اس نتیجے پر کیسے پہنچے؟ بیرونی ماحول کے بارے میں مزید دریافت کریں، دوسرے معیارات کیا ہیں؟ کام یا کام کیا ہے اس پر منحصر ہے – ایک کام میں طاقت دوسرے میں کمزوری ہوسکتی ہے۔ غور کریں کہ آپ کی سب سے بڑی طاقت کیا ہے، پھر ایسے حالات یا ملازمتوں کے بارے میں سوچیں جہاں یہ طاقت مخالف نتیجہ خیز ہو سکتی ہے۔ جو لوگ زیادہ تر مہارتوں میں مضبوط ہوتے ہیں ان میں دوسرے ملازمین کے لیے ہمدردی میں کمزوری ہو سکتی ہے کیونکہ وہ اسی طرح کی کوتاہیوں سے نمٹ نہیں پاتے۔

اگر آپ کو یقین ہے کہ آپ میں کوئی کمزوریاں نہیں ہیں، تو آپ وہ شخص نہیں ہیں جو خود کو ان کے آرام کے علاقے سے باہر رکھتا ہے… یا آپ خود سے بھرے ہوئے ہیں… ہم سب میں کمزوریاں ہیں جن پر ہم کام کرتے ہیں، لہذا ہم جو چاہتے ہیں وہ بنا سکتے ہیں۔ ہجے یا پروف ریڈنگ کے علاوہ اگر آپ کامل ہیں تو کیا ہوگا؟ کاروباری انگریزی کے استاد کے لیے یہ ایک کمزوری ہوگی۔ میں نے اپنے انٹرویو میں ہمیشہ اس سوال کا سامنا کیا ہے۔ ایک انٹرویو میں، میں نے ہمیشہ ایماندارانہ جواب دیا تاکہ کمپنی کو معلوم ہو جائے کہ اگر میں ان میں شامل ہوتا ہوں تو مجھ سے کیا امید رکھنی چاہیے۔ اور جو جواب میں نے انہیں دیا وہ میری سماجی مہارت ہے، جیسا کہ میرا معمول کا کام بیک آفس میں ہوتا ہے، میں شاذ و نادر ہی کلائنٹس سے براہ راست بات کرتا ہوں۔ لیکن کمزوریوں کو کمزوری نہیں رہنا چاہیے، ان پر قابو پانے کا ایک طریقہ ہونا چاہیے اور اپنی طاقت بننا چاہیے۔

نئی کمزوریاں ہو سکتی ہیں لیکن یہ پریشان کن نہیں ہونا چاہیے کیونکہ یہ خود کو بڑھنے کا موقع بھی ہے۔ ہم سب میں سب سے بڑی کمزوریاں ہیں۔ میرے لیے مجھے ان پر کوئی اعتراض نہیں ہے کیونکہ میں ہمیشہ اپنی طاقت پر فوکوس کرتا ہوں کہ مجھے جو بھی رکاوٹیں درپیش ہوں مجھے ان سے نمٹنا چاہیے۔ یہاں تک کہ غیر متوقع بیماری بھی۔ میں مایوس ہو سکتا ہوں۔ اگلا سوال: میں نے اس سے کیسے نمٹا؟ میرے 10 ‘حکموں’ کا حوالہ دیا۔ اچھا ختم ہوا۔ نوکری مل گئی۔ اس کی کئی طرح سے تشریح کی جا سکتی ہے۔ میں کچھ ایسا کہوں گا جس کا تعلق نوکری یا روزمرہ کے کاموں سے ہو۔ مثال کے طور پر میں عمل میں تفصیل پر بہت زیادہ توجہ دے سکتا ہوں اور اس میں مجھے کچھ وقت لگتا ہے۔ لیکن میں اتنا موثر ہوں کہ مجھے اکثر غلطیوں کو سدھارنے کی ضرورت نہیں پڑتی اس لیے مجموعی طور پر وقت کی بچت ہوتی ہے۔

ہم میں سے ہر ایک میں ایک کمزوری یہ ہے کہ ہم کافی غیر ملکی زبانیں نہیں جانتے ہیں 🙂 میرا جواب یہ ہے کہ میں نے ایشیا میں تقریباً 10 سال رہنے کے باوجود چینی زبان نہیں سیکھی۔ اپنی کمزوری جاننے کے لیے آپ کو خود تجزیہ کرنا چاہیے تھا۔ انٹرویو میں اپنی کمزوری کو قبول کرنا ایک بہت اچھا چیلنج ہے۔ اگر آپ کہہ رہے ہیں کہ آپ میں کمزوری ہے تو یہ ظاہر کرتا ہے کہ آپ سچے انسان ہیں اور مستقبل قریب میں آپ اپنی کمزوری پر قابو پا کر ترقی کریں گے۔ اس دنیا میں کوئی بھی شخص کامل نہیں ہے۔

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Sherani Forest Fire Latest Updates

I am begging you please talk about burning pine and wild olive forests in Sherani disrict of Balochistan. Fire has been going on for 10 days, reportedly killing 2 people and injuring many seriously. Activits of the region have been crying for help since the fire was in early.

A total of 31.6 sq km area affected at two different locations, due to 15-day long fire in forests of Sherani district of Balochistan, according to a map generated at Space Application Centre for Response in Emergency and Disasters (SCARED) on May 23. Iranian firefighter plane reached Sherani, started its operation to extinguish forest fire.
“The intensity of fire in the Sherani forest has been greatly reduced.” Our hearts equally burning with the pine nut forest of Sherani, Balochistan. The forest of Pine & Olive Since burning 11 days in koh_e_suleman Sherani. A lot of people has come into gripped of flame. 80% above area of forest completely destroyed. localities are demanding of rescue but they have no value in front of high officials.

Authorities didn’t take notice then. Now it’s out of control. Hundreds of people have their income associated with it. This fire was not because of climate change, the region isn’t that hot. It us state negligence towards our province and it’s people. What is this crap, why does news from Balochistan only rarely reaches us like its an obscure third world country far away from us. Media houses please shore up your presence, highlight issues so that pressure for solution can be applied. Balochistan government and NDMA Balochistan must act before it’s Too late.

My hometown is situated 45 min drive from Islamabad tarbela ghazi from last 4 days this fire is burning everything. Nobody taking notice. For God sake is there someone who can take notice and do something to avoid complete disaster. Well, the climate there is relatively cooler so heat didn’t cause the fire, people there are saying could be because of electrical wires somewhere. Fire was very small in the beginning, could have been controlled if authorities had taken action on time. They didn’t. Still no action.

It’s PPP at the helm of Climate Ministry while NDMA is in federal. So instead of tagging them all, tag those who matter or you seriously don’t want to hold these people accountable the same way you don’t hold PPP accountable for their 14 year run in Sindh? Climate Ministry and NDMA is in hangover. PMLN doesn’t want to take responsibility of any stuff goin on, and PPP currently is living over vibes. The entire country doesn’t have the resources to fight this.

The first was first started 12 days before at Mughal kot area in KP due to thunder lighting and then reached District Sherani of Balochistan and unfortunately the fire is still burning the Pine forest. One can only pray for rain, don’t expect any help from the provincial or federal government, they have more important work like saving their own self interests. Unfortunately forest department Balochistan have not even a good vehicles to reach the fire on tough hilly terrain. Today it’s 14th day of the fire but not controlled yet. It’s a humble request to higher authorities please.

 

 

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Pakistani LGBTQI+ Community Issues and Future

Pakistani LGBTQI+ community Issues and future are very uncertain as the country is still living in very conservative mode and it’s a taboo to even mention Pakistani LGBTQI+ to anyone out there without getting arrested or even getting harmed.

یاد رہے ہم جنس پرستی کا جرم بدترین گناہ ہے،لوط علیہ السلام کی امت پر اسی گندے عمل کو کرنے کیوجہ سے عذاب آیا،فرشتے نے انکی بستی کو اوپر اٹھا کر زمین پر پٹخ دیا تھا اور پھر پتھروں کی بارش برسائی گئی جس سے پوری قوم ہلاک ہوگئی تھی،یہ واقعہ بائبل،قرآن تمام آسمانی کتابوں میں درج ہے

آپ ہمارے اندرونی معاملات میں دخل اندازی نہیں کر سکتے
اگر آپ چند ڈالرز بھیک دیتے بھی ہیں تو جن کرپٹ لیڈروں کو دیتے ہیں انہیں اپنے ساتھ لے جائیں اور انکے ساتھ ہم جنس پرستی جی بھر کر کریں
ہمارے اسلامی نظام میں مداخلت کرنے پر میں شدید مزمت کرتا ہوں

لا الہ کے دیس میں اب ہر برائی امپورٹ ہوگی کیونکہ جن کے پاس طاقت ہے وہ برائی کو برائی سمجھتے ہی نہیں، ان کے خدا پیسہ اور طاقت ہیں۔

جب دنیا کے اکثر ممالک آپ کے ورلڈ آرڈر کو اپنے جوتے کی نوک پر رکھ چکے ہیں تو آپ بجائے اس کے کہ اپنی کمزوریوں کو ٹھیک کرتے اور دنیا کو امن کا گہوارہ بنانے کیلیے اسلام کے آفاقی نظام کی طرف توجہ کرتے آپ نے “ہم جنس پرستی” کے اور غیر اخلاقی طرز زندگی کو پاکستان میں لاگو کرنا چاہتے ہیں

یاد رہے ہم جنس پرستی کا جرم بدترین گناہ ہے،لوط علیہ السلام کی امت پر اسی گندے عمل کو کرنے کیوجہ سے عذاب آیا،فرشتے نے انکی بستی کو اوپر اٹھا کر زمین پر پٹخ دیا تھا اور پھر پتھروں کی بارش برسائی گئی جس سے پوری قوم ہلاک ہوگئی تھی، یہ واقعہ بائبل، قرآن تمام آسمانی کتابوں میں درج ہے

کون کہے گا یہ مسلمان ملک میں ہو رہا؟ دیکھئے،
کبھی کوئ مذمت دیکھی علماء سے؟
(2021 میں دینی تعلیم دینے والے 59 اساتذہ نے بچوں کے ساتھ ریپ کیا۔
36 واقعات میں اپنے سگے والد نے بچے یا بچی کو ریپ کا نشانہ بنایا جبکہ سوتیلے باپ کا نشانہ بننے والوں کی تعداد 17 تھی۔)

ہمارا دین ہمارا نبی صلہ نے منع کیا ہے اور یہ حرام ہے۔ کوئی LGBTQ community کی جگہ ہمارے دیں اور ہمارے ملک میں نہیں ہے۔ تم گندے امریکن گند ہی پھیلانا جانتے ہو۔

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بِسْمِ اللّٰهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ

اَلرِّجَالُ قَوَّامُوۡنَ عَلَى النِّسَآءِ بِمَا فَضَّلَ اللّٰهُ بَعۡضَهُمۡ عَلٰى بَعۡضٍ..
ترجمہ:
مرد عورتوں پر مسلط وحاکم ہیں اس لئے کہ اللہ نے بعض کو بعض سے افضل بنایا ہے

اسکے خلاف مولانا کو آواز اٹھانا چاہئے پر نہیں پھر امریکہ ابو خفا ہونگے
یہ امریکہ ایمبیسی اسلام آباد کا ٹویٹر اکاؤنٹ ہے کہ انتہائی غلیظ عمل کو عام کرنے کی تشہیر کر رہا ہے۔
مولانا کو چوروں کی حفاظت کرنے سے فرصت ملے تو سہی۔

امریکی سفارت خانہ اسلامی جمہوریہ پاکستان میں کھلے عام LGBTQ حقوق کی وکالت کر رہا ہے۔ یہ پاکستان کے آئینی، مذہبی اور ثقافتی اصولوں کے سراسر خلاف ہے۔ پاکستان میں ایسی گندگی کو متعارف کرانے کی کسی بھی کوشش سے آہنی مٹھی سے نمٹا جانا چاہیے۔

 

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Romaisa Khan Leaked Video Full Uncut

Some are saying that Romaisa Khan leaked video is the hottest item of this year as she dances and enjoys herself too much. That and she is also one of the most pretty girl in Pakistani social media. She is not shy at all and very bold without any limits.

Not a Tiktok Lover but this girl really got some good acting skills to be honest. Her Beauty is Unmatchable. What you are calling a peaceful nation, there is a lot of blood that was lost to make it what it is right now. The peace in this country is just because by hard nights spent by our soldiers on the border as per Romaisa Khan. This nation loves you and supports you, and is always behind you Romaisa Khan. No matter how difficult the paths may be, no matter how difficult the destinations may be.

There are two powers in the world; one is the sword and the other is the pen. There is a great competition and rivalry between the two. There is a third power stronger than both, that of the women. People who enjoy the sunroofs of their cars will never know the heat of the sun in the out. Enjoy ur trip n have more fun moments to treasure with. Missing you but love seeing you. happy n enjoying every bit of it. what kind of generation is this, what parents are teaching their kids, we re going towards total destruction, just for the sake of a 60 seconds clip look what have they done, forgetting that we are facing worst temperature in 60 years.

Just realized the most awkward thing isn’t someone recognizing me in public, it’s someone recognizing me in public and going off on me for whatever I said to them on tiktok. Tiktok has people posting videos of themselves washing rugs and here I am watching it for some god awful reason.

If there is fire, you don’t go there wearing jhumkas and Baaliyans. You try to stop the fire with whatever way possible because wildlife lives there. Where is humanity?

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Pet Market Mafia in Pakistan

Rawalpindi pet market mafia has reached the levels below hell. They are dumping sick dogs & cats in drains – the ones they didn’t feed at all & let them get weak. Instead of calling a vet – they dumped them in drains. Same is the case in Karachi, Lahore, and other places in Pakistan. This is insane and getting out of hands.

There is no mercy in the heart of these shopkeepers. They don’t pay proper taxes as they don’t maintain books on animals they have sold & made profit on. Authorities must punish them and make them pay for the treatment of these animals. Unfortunately, this is their normal routine. Small animal rescue teams/activists have been trying to shed light on this but the media has not been paying attention so far… We have tried to work with so many government officials to either close the pet Markets or regulate them. I know that these are strong people but state is stronger than them and this is a matter of urgency.

That’s horrible & heartbreaking. Almost every pet market in Pakistan resorts to same barbarian practices. Unfortunately, no action will be taken. The fact that these “markets” are able to do this daily without any repercussions means the govt departments are supporting them in exchange for money. Do you know if there is any organization there for this purpose for the rescue? Any charity that would help support these animals? If you know anyone working for the safety and food for these animals, please let me know it or ask them to rescue these animals. I will support them.

This is cruel, every cat and dog should be looked after like your own child. I do feel sorry for them animals who are been dumped when they are ill. Why not just take them to a vet and when they are well give them to a good home to get looked after. Are they rescued? Safe now? There should be a stray home shelter in Islamabad, Karachi, Lahore and every city of Pakistan. 1 puppy expired after an hour of arrival at the clinic. Rest of the three are doing slightly better after treatment and IV infusions over night, however one of them is having profuse diarrheic, dehydration and sub normal temperature.

We are doing our best to help them out of the trauma, neglect and abuse. Please whole heartedly donate towards their treatment.

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Who is Humaira Asghar Dolly tiktok and Full Leaked Video Uncut

Humaira Asghar known as Dolly Leo. Dolly is Tiktoker, Makeup Artist, Model, Actor, Dancer and Fashion Designer. Dolly leaked video on Margalla Hills with a boy is making rounds everywhere and police has also booked her for being firebug.

FIR has been lodged against Tiktoker Dolly for setting fire at Margalla Hills for shooting a TikTok video. Pakistani famous tiktoker “dolly” sets Margala hills forest on fire for making a tiktok video. Police has filed FIR against the tiktoker. Dolly is a famous TikToker with over 11 million followers on the social media app with a verified account and also has appeared in some leaked videos.

This is a disturbing & disastrous trend on Tik Tok! Young people desperate 4 followers are setting fire to our forests during this hot & dry season! In Australia it is lifetime imprisonment for those who start wildfires. We need to introduce similar legislation. No one considers a crime a crime unless there are severe punishments. Please make sure she is equally involved in the crime and if she says it was the demand of the film maker then reject this lame excuses, i as a volunteer of mhnp never let anyone do smoking or littering the national park and she dared to light up the fire.

There must be strict control before such things happen. Authorities are as much responsible, they don’t do their job well all times and incase of mishaps they get away putting all blames on culprits. In my view Tiktokers better be regulated than be banned or cursed. what kind of generation is this, what parents are teaching their kids, we re going towards total destruction, just for the sake of a 60 seconds clip look what have they done, forgetting that we are facing worst temperature in 60 years.

Well no leader can teach you morals which shall be taught at home, the government makes rules and regulations and public must follow them and to rise as a nation ppl need to raise awareness yet raise their kids in a better way, in 75 years we dint even learn how to walk on a road. Sorry to say if there was no need of a leader then we shouldn’t have any prophets, then there should be no corruption at all as morally we shouldn’t but unfortunately that’s not the case, leaders r supposed to have a wisdom to think about the future of their coming generations.

You have introduced many petitions & legislations in Punjab Assembly for different matters. Maybe you can bring one against Tiktok & Tiktokers. If not whole of Pakistan atleast half of them would be thankful to you on this act. Not sure if she actually set the forest on fire or took advantage of the fire. Can you confirm she actually set fire to the forest. If there is fire, you don’t go there wearing jhumkas and Baaliyans. You try to stop the fire with whatever way possible because wildlife lives there. Where is humanity?

Punishment should be stoning. My blood boils when people have no respect for nature. I am no tree hugger but I will not cut or damage a tree unless its needs to be. Trees in Pakistan is vital seeing how hot its getting every year (no rain’s bcoz no tree’s). People gone crazy to get followers and crossing all limits n decency to get name and fame. Society’s values eroded. Kudos to ur efforts to save nature.

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Always Pad Caused Itch Pain Rash and Fever

A year ago today, I woke up with an Always pad stuck to my bum, after twisting during the night. This caused a rash the next day and after a weekend of pain, I was admitted to hospital with necrotising fasciitis and septic shock. I couldn’t breathe, my kidneys were starting to struggle, my blood wasn’t flowing properly but my pulse was 145bpm. Even though I need emergency surgery, my vitals were so bad that the doctors said I wouldn’t survive it.

I had a blood transfusion and was constantly pumped with drugs to get my blood pressure to increase because it was critically low. Finally on the 20th May, I was strong enough to have my debridement surgery and get the infected tissue in my bum cut out. I spent a total of 10 days in ICU and 7 days on the regular ward. In September I had a follow up skin flap surgery to close the wound of the original surgical site. Please find out what’s going on with your products in Africa. I’ve been using your products for decades here in America and have never heard of this issue. After I noticed the constant irritation from using Always, had to switch to this. Has worked for me so far.

I’ve seen a lot of women in Africa complain about how terrible Always pads are. Pads that I had been using in the UK for 14 years with no issues. I will never use their products again (not that my period has returned since then), and I advise all women in Africa to do the same. It’s even the premium pack I was using. Not the cheapest one. Nothing but chemicals and bad vibes. Never knew it could get this bad. Stopped using Always 2019. It made me itch so bad. Always in constant discomfort. Why is no one talking about the green lady care? So cool nd comfortable and it’s cotton wool that’s inside when opened. It’s chemical free I guess! You see those flat ones that absorbs and turn the liquid to gel.

Always sanitary pad is one of the best menstrual pad in the market now, another good product is Drylove but keep in mind that a lot of fakes dominate the market too. Don’t just publicly cancel a brand cos u had a bad experience after using their product, everyone’s body differs. We’re terribly sorry to hear about your experience. Our products are all rigorously tested to ensure their quality and safety when used as directed, so this is certainly not something we’d expect. Isn’t it short? That’s what I started with as a teenager, then I started having heavy flows and lady care didn’t do much to help.

A couple of years ago, there was a campaign against the discomfort and poor quality of Always pads in Africa. Fast forward to now, it’s still happening. Unfortunately, lots of pads use these same chemicals that cause these reactions. Same with tampons – They cause septic shock. I have always used the Always Platinum variant too, and always ended the periods with a rash. Made the decision to buy menstrual cup, and its been the best decision for me so far. I’m so sorry to hear this. I also stopped using their pads officially 2 years ago. I have always used Always Pad and thought my stinging itching during period was normal not until my friend told me it wasn’t. Stopped using them and it’s been fine.

 

 

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Personal Expense of Wives in Pakistan

How much your husband gives you as a personal expense ‘kharcha’ for your own needs and fun every month or every week? This is other than the household expense which is normally run by the ladies of the house. I am talking about money for your own fun, needs and other stuff.

I am so effing pissed rn. I am furious. A man who literally earns more than 2 lacs per month gives his wife 2500 rupees per month only for her personal expenses and tells her to do savings. Lanat aisay ghatiya mardon par. People saying the girl could get a job, she had an amazing career, was financially independent, this is watta satta rishta, the girl’s family pressured her into this, she was forced to quit her job and become a house wife. This is just the tip of ice berg and I’m done with this.

It might be different if your foot is in his shoes. It might be that there are even not 2500 for ‘HIS’ personal expenses from that ‘More than 2 lac per month’. Running a household is very expensive these days. Maybe she could get a job and become “aatmanirbhar”? Her husband will really have no say in that! And if he wants her to be a housewife then that family has serious issues. Corporate dude marries colleagues divorcee sister. Earns way more than said colleague I mean 5 digit AED higher end. Gave 50AED mahana kharcha to wife. Colleague got promotion. This guy tells his wife ask your brother to buy me a new sports car.

I wish I could say I’m surprised and shocked but unfortunately it’s something I have been hearing quite a lot recently Infact I recently heard that some men expect the girls parents to give her money for her expenses because “beti tu unki hi hai”. There are men who earn lot more then that and do not give anything to wives except 2 summer joray and 2 winter…. Post this on some Facebook group and all women will tell her to be thankful for getting 2500. His wife should say to her husband, Yeh Rs 2500 bhi apney pass rakho. Men love quoting Islam to oppress women until they realize she’s entitled to 50% of her husband’s income.

Islamically, she is entitled to 0%. The husband has to provide food, accomodation etc. ‘Pocket money’ is optional, though recommend by scholars. This 50% is total bs. This made me so sad, may things get easier for her ameen, in today’s world financial independence is the only thing that saves women from so many problems and empowers them, I wish parents understand this and dont force their daughters into situations where they have to depend. Why do girls assume that 2 lacs kamata hoga tou sara uska apna hoga. Trust me, it can be hard to find spare 5-10k at times.

My father used to earn max 15k and give all the money to my mother only. She used to make sure how it spent and it remains like that till day even after he retired. Whatever comes in our house is under my mother’s custody only and she smh manages it perfectly. Does that include clothes ,visits, medicines and parlor? She is not “allowed” to go to parlor whenever she wants, or any visit to her own family as per her wish. Any dress she would like to wear, she has to “manage” herself. Earn as much as you can because nobody is going to stay with you forever but your mind and money will Therefore, financial independence is of utmost importance, especially for married women letting go of financial control does no good. It results in a skewed relationship.

I have taught my daughter to be well educated, independant and equal in all aspects like my wife is…she should never have to ask for money from her husband…make a career for herself. Already a dentist and content writer soon to fly abroad hopefully for further studies. There are those who may be born in one faith but have none of it in their soul . I know many here ( grown up men with kids ) whose behaviour is similar. They preach money and can’t let go , until they die and still have to leave it all here. I live in UK and I work full time, seven days a week from 8-9 hours per day and everything I earn, I send it to my family who live in Afghanistan. It makes me happy when I send them money.

Man should uplift her, motivate her to freelance/ work from home. He should take care if her finances if he cant let her work.

 

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Aamir Liaquat Leaked Videos Full Uncut with Wife Dania

I dislike Amir Liaqat from the core of my heart but his wife was not an angel either and she played with him. Both are garbage and deserves no attention at all. She was after his money and He was after her jawani. Junaid Jamshed tweeted this when Aamir Liaquat abused his mother & now amir liaquat’s whole life has become a curse. May Allah keep us away from such sins Ameen.

Astaghfirullah . Having conflicts and having a toxic relationship is a serious matter .But leaking someone’s videos , especially the videos of the time when your were the spouse of that person is literally disgusting and this practice should be stopped. Drug and alcohol abuse can change a person’s behavior and personality in ways that almost make them seem like an entirely different person. The Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم said: “If a man insults you with what he knows about you, do not insult him by what you know about him.
Verily, you will have a reward and the penalty is upon the one who said it.”

I have come to a conclusion it is a split personality disorder along with a lot of other irreversible disorders. Am i the only one who can say law can stop Dania Shah for releasing personal videos of Aamir Liaquat Hussain? Rest of case should be decided in court, but this act is condemnable, unethical & immoral. Junaid Jamshed started his career as a Singer and ended as a Naat-khuwaan. Amir Liaqat started his career as a Naat-khuwaan and ended as a Joker. Lesson learnt : Hidayat is a precious gift that chooses a person regardless of his age, profession or race.

Reason behind Amir Liaqat’s destruction, His first wife left her case to AllAh. “As you sow so shall you reap”. We want this kind of freedom on SM? Youth publicly sharing obscene videos without caring about mothers, sisters on SM as identified below by Cyber Eye. Don’t spoil your careers please as it’s a crime to share such videos irrespective of person in question. She is a weird face of a woman. They were married and we all knew that it’s normal after marriage but making videos and sharing those clips is a question Mark on a woman’s dignity and moral ethics. She must be punished legally for this act of shamelessness.

Syeda Dania has accused Aamir Liaquat of being abusive and violent towards her and has even said that if any harm befalls her or her family, Aamir would be responsible. Islamic scholar Dr. amir Liauqat high on drugs in his leaked video by his wife Dania Shah. Amir Liaquat is a fake scholar from the start. He is a total hypocrite at everything he has ever done. The guy should get cancel, people should not be influenced by this pathetic individual. Hating someone is one thing but leaking someone’s private videos , not matter a guy or a girl , is the most cancerous thing of social media and it’s even more unfortunate when such things are done by your spouse, the one who should be safeguarding.

Allah always show the reality of the person sooner or later. There are number of people like Amir who has used religion for there personal gains. Its really shameful to see what he is in reality. Allah is the greatest planner, dont undermine his powers. Rest of case should be decided in court, but this act is condemnable, unethical & immoral. State should protect Dania. Public opinion that she’s a gold-digger and a liar roots from patriarchal narratives. Most Pakistanis are eagerly waiting for their beliefs to be validated by the investigation and court, but not justice for the victim.

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Hashmi Kajal Eye Liner in Pakistan

Hashmi Kajal eye liner in Pakistan is world’s best makeup product hands down. If you are a female in Pakistan then there is no way you haven’t heard of Hashmi Kajal. No matter what your age or location or social status is, Hashmi Kajal is a must.

I hate it when people say, “hum toh niqal rahe hain mulk se tum bhi bahir niqal jao” as if it were that easy. bc sar pe maa baap ki koi zimedari hai, bhen bhaiyon ki hai. hum mein se bohat hain jinka jeena marna yaheen likha hua hai. Dania is a victim of not only Aamir Liaquat but also of her parents who knowingly married her off to that monster. It doesn’t matter if she is under 18 or above 18, given the power dynamics within desi households, & between her & Aamir, state needs to take responsibility for her.

But yes it’s banned in many countries for containing toxic levels of lead. Never knew this but it really reacts to my eyes I don’t use it. use Brit highstreet brands like Rimmel as eyepencil which I rarely wear (prefer liquid liner). Ordinary but safer. Every brand from YSL to MAC has kohl. Way better and safe. Begatelle online is one way to get eye liner in Pakistan from anywhere. Hashemi is dangerous because of lead poisoning. Humans lost a lot over two centuries but the recipe to this Product survived & was passed over two centuries and still going on.

Only if a Friend or family coming from Dubai or US they bring my stuff, mostly pages sell fake. Except during the summers when it’s generally smeared all over my face. I haven’t applied it for 3 years hence the romanticism. Long ago, I read an article about high Lead (Pb) content in this mascara and that it has been banned in some countries for this reason. I asked the pukhtoon friend who always wore surma. And she brought me some from her place. It wasn’t hashmi or any brand for that matter. They made their own. Many pakhtun is hilly region made their own but those near or in cities buy this Kajol surma.

I stopped using it ages ago because the lead really hurted my eyes. But New South Wales state government issued a public health alert over the Pakistan-made Hashmi brand products. The kohl cosmetics were found to contain 84% lead, as well as other dangerous metals.

The slightly expensive, steel coloured stick kajal is amazing. Great quality. This one dries quickly. Always wanted to use this. Somehow never did. But it did look gorgeous on friends. I would bring hundreds of these back to the UK every time I went to Pakistan. Tried a lot of different kajals but came back to this one a month back. It is indeed the best. Every time I put this in my eyes, it literally ruins makeup.

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